So keep your initial phone conversation short and to the point. Keep Safety in Mind Let’s face it, until you know someone, you don’t know them.So it’s important to keep safety in mind when giving a date your phone number.You’ve done well so far, but now her digits are burning in your brain.Are you going to ace the first call or spiral down in flames?Finding out whether you find each other’s company interesting over the phone requires more than a quick five-minute conversation.Therefore, I suggest that you have a fairly long first conversation – around 20 minutes or so to get a feel for each other.If you develop a routine of talking to your match regularly, it could mean that by the time you meet the potential spark will be gone.
By doing this, these men are missing out on a very important step in the interaction with the woman they just met – they are not using that first phone conversation effectively.
The online dating dance usually includes similar moves no matter who catches your eye. Eventually someone drops their phone number and the other responds.
When it comes, you exchange flirty little messages for a few days and learn about one another.
Of course, you shouldn’t hang on the phone for two hours so that you get sick of each other before you even met, but getting an idea about each other’s personality through a slightly longer than usual conversation before meeting for the first time is indeed a very good idea.
So, treat your very first phone conversation with a woman as a first date – it’s an interaction where you learn a little more about each other and you find out if there is a mutual interest and mutual desire to actually get to know each other better after that conversation.